I have made excuses throughout my life not to quit using drugs, I have also heard so many. I would like to share the problem and associate a solution for that problem.
1) I don't know where to start.
This is too common. I was in this same boat. Figuring out where to turn for help is scary for sure. Some people, like myself are not open to going to rehab, a doctor, or a minister, all of which will help you. There are many other solutions. Blogs like mine that you are reading can give someone a place to start. A person who has been there to relate to and read their story. It's always good to see you aren't the only one. Online addiction forums are everywhere, addiction webpages, support groups and so forth.
2) I don't think I can function without drugs.
I hear this a lot. I used to say it myself and the truth is, drugs usually tend to make a person feel anxiety when they go out into the public. You fear people will notice or you fear getting in trouble so you tend to stay at home. Then there is those who "must" get high before going to work. Once you have trained your body to only work while intoxicated, it is hard doing the same thing sober. Best thing to do if you are ready to quit is, take a long weekend. Tell your boss you need a few days fpr personal reasons, they are not allowed to tell you no when it is serious. Even if you don't think you can afford to, do it anyways. The money you save on not buying drugs will make up for that extra day or two off. Take a few days, the first two are usually the hardest m the body has to detoxify. Sleep a lot, eat, relax. Then go out sober and do the things you normally would. Try to relive the world in a different view. It really is a much more beautiful world when you are sober. Exercise, always helps your body regain energy and helps your brain start working like it should.
3) Others around me aren't willing to quit.
This one is typical. I lived this one for a very long time. It was the reason it took me so long to quit. If it is a loved one, you should discuss with them your plan and why. Show them how life will benefit from not using. If they still refuse then it is time to sever ties with them. I know it's hard and you love them, but they will only hold you back. If it is friends and they don't respect your decision then they truly are not a friend to keep.
4) I don't know if I can do it on my own.
You are never alone. No matter where you seek advise, someone will be there for you that will not judge you. Sometimes it takes leaving your comfort zone but quitting drugs is already leaving your comfort zone because you are starting over so take it a little further and reach out. It doesn't have to cost you anything if you are strapped for money, there is help and you are not alone.
5) I don't think anyone will be able to help ME.
Don't think that too fast. No matter how deep you are in, there is always someone who has had it worse than you. People that are dedicated to helping you quit are relentless and will not give up on making you succeed. I used to think I was a lost cause. It took a lot of courage and strength the day I packed up and left my ex. I had to do it or I would still be an addict. There was no support there. It was hard and scary but in time you won't regret making the best choice.
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